Relationship Responsibility

Responsibility. It's a word that can be easily used, but often misinterpreted and misunderstood.

A HotWife/cuckold dynamic is no different than a traditionally perceived relationship.

Ultimately it involves two committed people who have chosen to come together and made a commitment to one another. To work together, to communicate, to build trust, honour and a future in whatever way they desire, based upon the boundaries they have set, and the aspirations they have in mind.

Essentially the Responsibility comes in holding true to one another.

But for the purposes of cuckoldry and in this case the cuckold, what are the responsibilities or perhaps duties that may befall a cuckold in such a role. As with everything they can be tailored to best fit the needs of the two people involved, so desires and both physical and emotional needs are successfully met.

In my humble mind, the cuckold should always be working towards making his 'HotWifes' life a little easier all around. This is not in the capacity of being a slave, or simple servant but beginning to learn the ways that his Mistress enjoys to be taken care of. After all we as 'cuckolds' want our 'HotWives' lives to be enjoyable, relaxing, stress free and that they are made to feel loved, worshipped, cared for and absolutely treasured within the walls of their home. Loved and supported beyond belief and know that they have the absolute freedom to pursue and enjoy any pleasures they desire as a 'HotWife'.

So, to me this incorporates being able to assume duties of the home whether it be the laundry, or the cleaning. Things that in times gone by would have been perceived to fall to the traditional role of a 'HouseWife', which is not something I've ever subscribed to. Now in some relationships this element doesn't really change, its actually desired to remain the same. Personally, I believe that within a relationship it should be 50/50 all the way, both parties should be putting in equally to the continued success of the relationship, and how that gets divided up with respect to chores etc is set by the HotWife and cuck.

However, aside from the usual day to day. Where and what can a true 'cuckold' do to really recognise their responsibilities, and they are responsibilities....to ensure that his 'HotWife' is taken care of and is made to feel that on a daily basis. its about raising your game, setting the bar and doing things that actually could be considered some levels of foreplay but introducing them as a standard. After all, for a cuckolds' 'HotWife' to truly feel that they are living and becoming the role they so need, they must be treated in such a way that begins to introduce their 'HotWife' to a new life of being cared for, made to feel truly desired, wanted and aided in looking as Beautiful as they are for anyone they choose to play with. A new way of doing things, doing it properly with focus and commitment and allows them to embrace the life of a 'HotWife'.

Its about simple pleasures. Being genuinely thoughtful.

- From making coffee in the morning
- Taking the time in the day to listen, to hear and be open to all they need
- To love, encourage, and support all they are
- To encourage all their desires most absolutely
- To support their dreams and passions
- To Love unconditionally always
- A massage day or night
- Running a bath
- Bathing your 'HotWife' - not in a sexual manner but a tending/caring/loving way
- Flowers as and when - simply just because...and never associated with a traditional reason
- Arranging Beauty appointments (Manicures / Pedicures / Hair)
- Organising Massage Appointments to enhance wellbeing
- Surprise trips away
- Surprise thoughtful gifts. Never have to be expensive, its about the thought
- Demonstrate fidelity, commitment in thought and act
- Demonstrate belief in all you are as a 'cuckold'

As crazy as it sounds, irrespective of the dynamic, its about romance, simple romance. Taking the time to continually make the time and effort to show that very special someone that although you may never be permitted sexual penetrative pleasures again, your love for them continues to grow for them on a daily basis higher and higher, deeper and deeper. Because, all that will ever matter is letting your 'HotWife' know is just how they truly special they are to you in every aspect of your life together and it is them as a person that is the most important aspect in all you are together to you.

So, as the above meme says...in one line...don't talk it, do it, prove it and continue to back it up.