Marked

                              

   

Tattoo's or being Inked as some refer to it.

Its a statement, a bold declaration and inescapable.

Fantasy or reality ? That is the question. Are you committed to the chosen life of 'cuckoldry' come what may, or is it a passing fetish phase that you're merely exploring.

If your answer is that you're committed to this lifestyle then in all likelihood, its probably not a step too far to have considered at some point whether you would willingly accept such a mark of permanence on your body, a declaration that you are indeed a 'cuckold' for the world to see and pass scrutiny upon. For the others there are always temporary tattoos to explore with.

However, to my mind if you have already chosen the path of 'cuckoldry' then the acceptance and understanding in the present and the future, is the desire of your Mistress, Queen of Spades, or HotWife....and if it were to please them then surely that is all that would matter.

If you are going to do something then it mustn't be half hearted, as it simply shows a lack of commitment and respect to the person you have chosen to be with and try to become worthy of. Of course finding someone who can truly reciprocate your every effort, every step of the way is one of the hardest parts.

But, I reason this. To be tattooed in such a manner that could be generic in one form....with a simpler statement such as the word 'cuckold' is only to acknowledge your own chosen path and the role which you feel fits you best. If you choose to make it more personal then perhaps over time and with the right partner then this could incorporate some essence of personal style or reference whether in name or influence.  It removes that problematic area of being marked in such a way and then regretfully having it either covered up with a different design or adjusted in such a situation. And if such a problem was to arise the last thing anyone wants is for their to be the loss of love for the life you have chosen as a 'cuckold'.

This also raises another point to this. Should it be a 'cuckold's' choice to be marked in such a way, should they really have any say. Yes it is of course their body but within the remit of the cuckoldry dynamic after having willingly entered such an arrangement, the body they have for all intents and purposes is no longer theirs so to speak, as everything they do usually has a permission basis attached to it when it comes to lifestyle aspects. This does all depend on the safe, sane and consensual applications of common agreement within the lifestyle as a whole.

My personal desire has always been to find someone who is much stronger than I am, not in a physical sense but that we both know they have the power over me. Submission is always a gift but in some ways not only must it be given, but it must be taken someone who wishes to not only own it, but play with it, tease it, torment it, love for it and care above and beyond.  To find that one person who could invoke permanent chastity without asking (tied to a bed & locked up works?), or makes the step to take their 'cuckold' to the local artist and have them marked in such a way.  This of course all depends on the strength of the relationship, the boundaries of trust and the depth of commitment and only those involved will know inherently and understand just how far each other can go.

My leaving thought is this.

In the right circumstance, with the right Mistress, is there anything you wouldn't do, to become everything they need and be able to do anything they ask of you. To be marked, pierced, fulfil a task, address your Mistress in the way in which they desire and stipulate for particular settings irrespective of surroundings....does anyone else matter at all, so long as you can make your Mistress proud of you, proud that your sole focus is upon them.

And whilst my own journey is only in its infancy, recently my 'guiding' Mistress asked me to converse with the piercing studio W/we are using for my tongue piercings, and highlight the fact that through discussion with my Mistress, I was to request a certain colour option as it matched my locked chastity cage. This I duly did and Bcc'd my Mistress to the email. So whilst I may put thoughts to paper albeit electronically, I am willing to go every step of the way in this journey as far as my own capabilities will take me and find myself ready to be marked in such a way that there is no turning back and am committed to the life of becoming the best 'cuckold' I can be. 

If you can achieve this most beautiful of headspace then you're nearly ready to become everything you desire in life as a 'cuckold'.....to live the dream, you must first dream it. To become the dream, you must live through it.